As my travel plans for the new years was cancelled, I decided to just enjoy my time in St. John's. I said yes to almost every invitation I received (which isn't plenty, considering most of the people I know were travelling). This was when I started hanging out with La Dame.
I first met La Dame's at Senhora Sorridente's farewell party. Senhora was an exchange student, just like most of the friends I made during my studies at St. John's, but I digress. La Dame invited me to celebrate Christmas with her, her church buddies, and some other international students. We'll keep that story for some other time.
The Christmas party was pretty cool, I met lots of people whom I now regularly stay in contact with.
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A few days have passed and its New Years Eve. Considering that I was suppose to travel during the break, I was sulking alone in my home, but then La Dame invited me, along with the rest of the students (now friends) who went to the Christmas party, to celebrate the new years with her. Instead of sulking in my home, I accepted her offer and almost got lost walking to her home.
The dinner was fine, and the table decided to head to Quidi Vidi Lake to watch the fireworks at around 11:30pm. We finished dinner around 9:00pm so there was plenty of time to kill. We then relocated ourselves to the living room and share each of our individual stories. This blog post is reserved for La Dame's story.
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L'histoire de la Dame
It was the early 90's, she was a missionary for a local church here. One of her biggest dream was to visit the Russian Federation. Her church was attempting to undergo a missionary mission at that time, unfortunately the church was unable to collect enough funds to send the missionaries there. "God knows I always wanted to go to Russia, that's why Russia came to me," she said every time she begins telling this story.
Just to remind you, during the early 90's, Russia was in a state of turmoil as the Soviet Union was just very recently dissolved. There were lots of Russian sailors coming into St. John's, to refuel or something, I'm not really sure. One of the sailor fell really really ill and requires immediately attention. The local doctors were going to send him back to Russia to receive such medical treatment, however the sailor insists that Russia will not have the treatment he needed. La Dame caught wind of this and decided to help this Russian sailor. Unfortunately, La Dame speaks absolutely 0 Russian, but she does have a Russian speaking friend. What she did was she wrote down everything the sailor said, syllable by syllable, until she got it right. Then, she called up her Russian speaking friend, and ask her friend to translate what she said through the phone. After collecting enough information, La Dame then argued with the doctors and finally convinced them to allow the sailor to stay.
Many months have passed since the incident, and not a word from the sailor. One fine day, a Russian man approached to her church and demanded to see La Dame. La Dame reluctantly went to meet with this man, and he introduced himself as a good friend of the Russian sailor she saved. The Russian man then invited her to tour their ship, as per request of the Russian sailor she saved.
Upon reaching the ship, the Russian sailor came out and thanked her with such gratitude. He then proceed to give La Dame a tour around and inside the ship. When she was in the ship, La Dame explained that she was feeling extremely afraid, as many shirtless Russian men, whom have not seen a female for the past few weeks or months, slowly surrounds her. The Russian sailor then shouted at his fellow sailor, she couldn't understand what he was saying but she understood "missionary". The rest immediately backed off her as soon as the Russian sailor finished.
The sailor then brought her into a small room, where there sat a Japanese man. The Japanese man speaks fluent English, and he explains that he is the ship's inspector. She then told us that the Japanese man said some pretty obscene things, she didn't really explain what he said, so it's up to our imagination, but the Japanese man did not do anything to her. The Japanese man then offered her some tea and some fresh sashimi.
As she was leaving the ship, the Russian sailor gave her an extremely huge halibut, as a farewell gift, and of gratitude, and she went on her way.
She told the story to her family, and her sister wants to visit the ship. So, La Dame arranged another tour in the ship. Her mother then sent her and her sister to the ship. They tried to convince their mother to join her but she doesn't want to go into a closed area where it's all men and stayed in the car for the rest of the tour. The funny thing was, when the Russian sailor was giving La Dame and her sister a tour around the ship, most of the sailor came out and surround her mother's car, trying to convince her to join her daughters.
As the sisters returned from the tour, she explained that her mom was terrified, and told her not to hang out with other "strange men" again.
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Ever since I started hanging out with La Dame, I've been more accepting of things.This story of hers inspired me to start taking leap of faiths. I now use my curiosity to drive me forward, instead of fearing of the unknown. I don't want to regret not doing certain things anymore just because I was afraid, or not willing to leave my comfort zone.